I don't know whether there are people who is having the same thought as I, where sometimes when you are down or low, all you need is just somebody to listen to you at that moment.
You do not need any advices, any suggestions, any comments and people to ask you back questions. All you need is just being listened. That's it.
For instance: I lost RM50 this morning at the KTM Station, and I feel very sad because it is the pocket money for this week and it makes me need to make an overdraft. What will 'fed me up' is such feedback that I might receive:
1) Don't be so sad la, RM50 only ma. - Advice
2) Next time you should keep all your money inside your socks, LOL - Suggestion
3) Hmm... next time don't be so careless lo. - Comment
4) How come you so careless one? - Question
Maybe the above mentioned is not a very good example, but it is just what am I trying to express. Oh, I found that the skill of talking of a listener is important as well. They either don't talk or say something simple where no assumptions involve. Erm... Seems like the listener better don't talk. Unless you are being asked for. Wahaha!
Well, I'm posting this cause I was quite down some moment ago and the listener talked too much. XD Know they were just being concerned but that is not what I wanted. XD
I'm weird and odd. >.<
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It's been 1 month plus since the renovation was going on. This neighbour which is next 2 doors from me, almost drilling and drilling everyday!!! This really makes me crazy as the drilling is starting at 8am or 8:30am sharp, very on time!!!!
If I'm having rest day at home, it will disturb my sleep since the early morning. If I'm working night shift, it will disturb my sleep when I'm back home cause the drilling, hammering etc will only stop in the afternoon. The sound is really irritating!!!!
This is the 2nd time they are having the renovation. The owner aunty used to claim that how poor are they, until like no money to go to the market and need to borrow a little money from each of the neighbourhood. She is really tricky as she will pretend she bring not enough cash and ask people pay on behalf of her first. After that she will pretend forgot to return it to you. Perhaps you will think: aiya, few ringgit buy vege only ma. But if this happen frequently, you'll know how much she can save!!! My mum already kena few times. Cilaka! Besides that, she knows how to drive and the grocery store is just minute away. But if her soya sauce or other sauces finished, she'll come borrow rather than go to buy herself. Especially during the season she wanna have party for her children. The whole brand new bottle of sauce will left less than half when it's being returned. So tak tau malu. Well again, you might say: aiya, also few ringgit only ma. But don't you think this kind of people is sick? She is mentally sick.
Ok, now back to the renovation. Other than the noise, there's an incident happened last week too. The crane that came to tow something to the rooftop has been collapse. It caused the whole neighbourhood out of electricity. Besides that, the crane has been crushed onto another house and storeroom's rooftop, causing the street lamp fell down. It caused the street to a mess. Too bad I only got to know this while on my way to work (yea, I'm working morning shift last week).
This news has been showing on the newspaper the day after that incident.
http://search.sinchew-i.com/node/341858?k=%E5%90%8A%E8%BB%8A:%E8%A3%9D%E4%BF%AE
If I'm having rest day at home, it will disturb my sleep since the early morning. If I'm working night shift, it will disturb my sleep when I'm back home cause the drilling, hammering etc will only stop in the afternoon. The sound is really irritating!!!!
This is the 2nd time they are having the renovation. The owner aunty used to claim that how poor are they, until like no money to go to the market and need to borrow a little money from each of the neighbourhood. She is really tricky as she will pretend she bring not enough cash and ask people pay on behalf of her first. After that she will pretend forgot to return it to you. Perhaps you will think: aiya, few ringgit buy vege only ma. But if this happen frequently, you'll know how much she can save!!! My mum already kena few times. Cilaka! Besides that, she knows how to drive and the grocery store is just minute away. But if her soya sauce or other sauces finished, she'll come borrow rather than go to buy herself. Especially during the season she wanna have party for her children. The whole brand new bottle of sauce will left less than half when it's being returned. So tak tau malu. Well again, you might say: aiya, also few ringgit only ma. But don't you think this kind of people is sick? She is mentally sick.
Ok, now back to the renovation. Other than the noise, there's an incident happened last week too. The crane that came to tow something to the rooftop has been collapse. It caused the whole neighbourhood out of electricity. Besides that, the crane has been crushed onto another house and storeroom's rooftop, causing the street lamp fell down. It caused the street to a mess. Too bad I only got to know this while on my way to work (yea, I'm working morning shift last week).
This news has been showing on the newspaper the day after that incident.
http://search.sinchew-i.com/node/341858?k=%E5%90%8A%E8%BB%8A:%E8%A3%9D%E4%BF%AE
Well, the owner is not worried as all as all these compensation will be beared by the crane company. The aunty only feel she is lucky as she need not to pay a single cent and she also didn't crushed by the crane nor the street lamp. She only thinking for herself, what about the neighbours???
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