I don't know whether there are people who is having the same thought as I, where sometimes when you are down or low, all you need is just somebody to listen to you at that moment.
You do not need any advices, any suggestions, any comments and people to ask you back questions. All you need is just being listened. That's it.
For instance: I lost RM50 this morning at the KTM Station, and I feel very sad because it is the pocket money for this week and it makes me need to make an overdraft. What will 'fed me up' is such feedback that I might receive:
1) Don't be so sad la, RM50 only ma. - Advice
2) Next time you should keep all your money inside your socks, LOL - Suggestion
3) Hmm... next time don't be so careless lo. - Comment
4) How come you so careless one? - Question
Maybe the above mentioned is not a very good example, but it is just what am I trying to express. Oh, I found that the skill of talking of a listener is important as well. They either don't talk or say something simple where no assumptions involve. Erm... Seems like the listener better don't talk. Unless you are being asked for. Wahaha!
Well, I'm posting this cause I was quite down some moment ago and the listener talked too much. XD Know they were just being concerned but that is not what I wanted. XD
I'm weird and odd. >.<
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